On social media we invariably come across the following 11 lessons of life allegedly crafted by Bill Gates and explained to students at a convocation at his Alma Mater in 2000;
Rule No. 1: Life is not fair. Get used to it. The average teen-ager uses the phrase “It’s not fair” 8.6 times a day. You got it from your parents, who said it so often you decided they must be the most idealistic generation ever. When they started hearing it from their own kids, they realized Rule No. 1.
Rule No. 2: The real world won’t care as much about your self-esteem as much as your school does. It’ll expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself. This may come as a shock. Usually, when inflated self-esteem meets reality, kids complain that it’s not fair. (See Rule No. 1)
Rule No. 3: Sorry, you won’t make $40,000 a year right out of high school. And you won’t be a vice president or have a car phone either. You may even have to wear a uniform that doesn’t have a Gap label.
Rule No. 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait ’til you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure, so he tends to be a bit edgier. When you screw up, he’s not going to ask you how you feel about it.
Rule No. 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping. They called it opportunity. They weren’t embarrassed making minimum wage either. They would have been embarrassed to sit around talking about Kurt Cobain all weekend.
Rule No. 6: It’s not your parents’ fault. If you screw up, you are responsible. This is the flip side of “It’s my life,” and “You’re not the boss of me,” and other eloquent proclamations of your generation. When you turn 18, it’s on your dime. Don’t whine about it, or you’ll sound like a baby boomer.
Rule No. 7: Before you were born your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way paying your bills, cleaning up your room and listening to you tell them how idealistic you are. And by the way, before you save the rain forest from the blood-sucking parasites of your parents’ generation, try delousing the closet in your bedroom.
Rule No. 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers. Life hasn’t. In some schools, they’ll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. Failing grades have been abolished and class valedictorians scrapped, lest anyone’s feelings be hurt. Effort is as important as results. This, of course, bears not the slightest resemblance to anything in real life. (See Rule No. 1, Rule No. 2 and Rule No. 4.)
Rule No. 9: Life is not divided into semesters, and you don’t get summers off. Not even Easter break. They expect you to show up every day. For eight hours. And you don’t get a new life every 10 weeks. It just goes on and on. While we’re at it, very few jobs are interested in fostering your self-expression or helping you find yourself. Fewer still lead to self-realization. (See Rule No. 1 and Rule No. 2.)
Rule No. 10: Television is not real life. Your life is not a sitcom. Your problems will not all be solved in 30 minutes, minus time for commercials. In real life, people actually have to leave the coffee shop to go to jobs. Your friends will not be as perky or pliable as Jennifer Aniston.
Rule No. 11: Be nice to nerds. You may end up working for them. We all could.
Wonderful but unfortunately they are not from Bill Gates.He never made that speech!Titled as “Rules Kids Won’t Learn in School” ,it is sometimes cited as having come from his book Business @ The Speed of Thought. However both are untrue.These rules were crafted by Charles J.Skyes,the author of 1996 book–Dumbing Down Our Kids:Why American Children Feel Good about Themselves But Can’t Read,Write or Add? These Rules were the stuff of his 2007 book–50 Rules Kids won’t Learn in School:Real-World Antidotes to Feel-Good Education.
- Three other rules are often omitted:Rule 12.Smoking does not make you look cool.It makes you look moronic.Next time you are out cruising,watch an 11 year old with a butt in his mouth.That is what you look like to anyone over 20.Ditto for “expressing yourself “with purple hair and/or pierced body parts.Rule 13.You are not immortal.(See Rule 12)If you are under the impression that living fast,dying young and leaving a beautiful corpse is romantic,you obviously haven’t seen your peer at room temperature
Rule 14.Enjoy this while you can.Sure parents are a pain,school is a bother and life is depressing.But someday you will realize how wonderful it was to be a kid.Maybe you should start now.You are welcome